★ HELPING CHILDREN GRIEVE ★

Grief in children.
Professional guidance.

Specialised online continuing professional development for funeral professionals, palliative care teams and social workers. Developed by Richard Hattink — evidence-based, immediately applicable.

25+years of experience
3languages
7+countries

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Grief in children requires a different approach

When a parent dies, children are rarely truly prepared. Not because adults don’t want to help — but because most professionals don’t know where to start. What do you say to an eight-year-old whose father has just died? How do you explain cremation? What do you do when a child is angry instead of sad?

KC ToThePoint gives you concrete answers. No abstract theory. No models without practical value. Real stories from 27 years of experience — and clear steps you can apply in your work tomorrow.

For professionals working with grief and loss

The online training programmes at KC ToThePoint are designed for everyone who works with families where a parent is seriously ill or has died:

  • Funeral professionals
  • Hospice and palliative care teams
  • Grief counsellors and bereavement support workers
  • School counsellors and teachers
  • Social workers and family support workers
  • Nurses and healthcare professionals

Why KC ToThePoint?

Richard Hattink has been working with children, young people and families in grief and loss situations since 1999. He is the founder of BijDeHand — supporting families with a terminally ill parent — and of KC ToThePoint, an international centre of expertise on grief in children and young people. He works across the Netherlands, Belgium, Germany, Austria and Switzerland.

 

Courses

Click on a course to purchase or start it. Previews are available free of charge.

Funeraltoys in practice

✓ NOW AVAILABLE · €89

Involving children in funerals

✓ NOW AVAILABLE · €89

Conducting Children's funerals

✓ NOW AVAILABLE · €89

Follow-up course: involving children in funerals

COMING SOON · €278

Annual Programme Cloverleaf model

UNDER CONSTRUCTION · €

Ambiguous loss & domestic violence

✓ NOW AVAILABLE · €19

PREVIEW: We must stop offering comfort

COMING SOON · €0

PREVIEW: Involving children in funerals

COMING SOON · €0

Richard Hattink

Richard Hattink

Educator · Funeral director · International trainer · Author · Researcher into children’s grief

I have been working with children, young people and families coping with grief and loss since 1999. I developed the KIDS model, the Clover model and funeral toys — and I deliver training courses across Europe in Dutch, English and German.

MSc PedagogyTeachers degree25+ years experienceInternational recognised